Let me start off by saying that I am happily in a relationship. But some men just don't get it. My man isn't perfect, no man is, but thats why were perfect for each other; we learn from each other. So I hope that I can teach something to all the other men out there who just don't seem to get it. But women are not that hard to figure out. Taylor Swift in all of her songs basically layer out every girls dream apologies, dates, and special moments. Weather you're trying to win her heart, let her know you really are so sorry and mean it, or you just want to make her feel better, I'm going to tell you how to do it.
If you get into a fight, whether you screwed up or it was a stupid argument, remember these two words, flowers and chocolate. A simple rose or whatever her favorite flower is, is not only instant forgiveness but makes her fall into your arms. Every time she looks at the flower(s) you gave you she'll think about you and how sweet you were for apologizing (weather you were right or wrong, the women is always right).
For "that time of the month" chocolate is your answer . Theobromine in chocolate is a caffeine-like stimulant that makes you perk up, tryptophane increases the brain's serotonin levels for a happy, feel-good result, phenethylamine, releases endorphins, making feelings of passion and love. Which in turn, makes her feel goo, which makes you feel good. Happy girlfriend, happy life.
If you did something that is relationship-threatening, you have some serious making up to do! That is if she stays with you of course. This isn't about spoiling her into forgetting what you did, it's about showing her how much you do love and care for her, as well as how much she means to you. Check her favorites on twitter or instagram, see what designer's product she's favoriting or liking. She will be so surprised and happy at the thought you put into it. Or just pay attention to what she says she likes when you're out at the mall. Maybe surprise her when she raves about how much she likes something, and just buy it for it. for her then and there. Seems so simple right? But to her, it mean SO much. And if it doesn't, it should! Girls love to show off (sorry ladies!), she will love to be able to show off her man, and whatever it is you decide to do for her.
Now, depending on the size and seriousness of the fight, your apology should be just as big. Even a really cute, sweet, and heartfelt text message would make her smile all day. Again, this isn't about spoiling your lady into forgetting and forgiving. It is about showing her that you know what she likes, that you pay attention to her, that you want to do everything and more for her, it is to show her how much you love her.
-XoxoHNW
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